Багата дівчина не віддає борг сусідці, та краде її матрац

Співмешканці можуть стати чудовою частиною вашого життя. Вони можуть перетворитися на найкращих друзів, яких ви ніколи не думали, що потребуватимете, або на брата чи сестру, яких ви ніколи не мали… у фільмах. У реальному житті вони можуть стати справжнім випробуванням, м’яко кажучи. Особливо, коли одна з них винна вам купу грошей і, здається, не надто прагне їх повернути. У цій історії студентське життя зустрічається з помстою в стилі «Крещеного батька», але обертається навколо вкраденого матраца.

Три сусідки по кімнаті почали мати проблеми, коли перша з них залишилася без підтримки батьків. Через це три сусідки перейшли від поділу орендної плати на трьох до того, що друга сусідка намагалася допомогти першій, покриваючи частину її витрат. Вони навіть пішли на те, щоб купити їй дорогий матрац. Однак, коли у першої сусідки з’явився хлопець, стосунки між сусідками знову змінилися. Вона майже не бувала в квартирі, а минулі борги, здавалося, були заморожені на невизначений час, що, зрозуміло, не сподобалося другій сусідці. До того ж, друга сусідка вирішила переїхати до своєї дівчини і потребувала додаткового матраца для їхньої нової квартири. Можливість почала вимальовуватися сама собою.

src=’https://i.chzbgr.com/full/10664444928/hA03AE57C/aita-stealing-my-roomates-mattress-not-he’ width=”800″ height=”343″ alt=”AITA for stealing my roomate’s mattress? Not the A-he” />

src=’https://i.chzbgr.com/full/10664446208/hC148C8B0/going-through-some-serious-financial-trouble-because-her-parents-had-completely-cut-her-off’ width=”800″ height=”805″ alt=”I live with 3 roommates (alias: Bubbles, Buttercup, and Blossom) in an apartment right around the corner from our campus. When we first moved into our apartment last March, Buttercup was going through some serious financial trouble because her parents had completely cut her off.” />

src=’https://i.chzbgr.com/full/10664445184/h1F90CD58/pretty-close-didnt-mind-helping-her-stay-on-her-feet-months-only-divided-groceries-and-rent-3-ways’ width=”800″ height=”434″ alt=”We were all pretty close we didn’t mind helping her stay on her feet, for months we only divided the groceries and rent 3 ways.” />

src=’https://i.chzbgr.com/full/10664446976/h8E97F7F2/job-listings-drove-her-around-and-were-furnishing-our-apartment-bought-her-mattress-most-little’ width=”800″ height=”894″ alt=”I was particularly close with Buttercup, and I really understand this kind of stress since I’ve been financially independent from 16, so I did my best to help out. I paid for her laundry, helped her find job listings, drove her around, and when we were furnishing our apartment I bought her a mattress. Most of the little” />

src=’https://i.chzbgr.com/full/10664445696/hCB738EDB/out-but-mattress-one-thing-decided-she-would-definitely-pay-back-since-had-set-back-almost-1000′ width=”800″ height=”647″ alt=”mattress. Most of the little things I didn’t mind paying for and I just wanted to help out, but the mattress was the one thing that we decided she would definitely pay me back for since it had set me back almost €1,000.” />

src=’https://i.chzbgr.com/full/10664446464/h143B13DB/hadnt-paid-back-so-mattress-technically-mine-but-didnt-make-fuss-because-didnt-have-any-use-anyway’ width=”800″ height=”616″ alt=”In August, Buttercup got a bf, often spending entire weeks at his apartment. She still hadn’t paid me back, so the mattress was technically mine but I didn’t make a fuss because I didn’t have any use for it anyway.” />

src=’https://i.chzbgr.com/full/10664459008/h1F0648DE/a-couple-people-sitting-on-the-ground-talking’ width=”800″ height=”450″ alt=”A couple people sitting on the ground, talking.” />

src=’https://i.chzbgr.com/full/10664445440/h108A50BB/room-bringing-over-my-current-bed-but-guest-room-needed-another-full-sized-mattress-figured-would’ width=”800″ height=”825″ alt=”However, as of a couple of weeks ago, I’ve been working on moving into a new apartment with my gf. Our new place has two bedrooms, and we’ve decided to allocate one as guest room. I’m bringing over my current bed but for the guest room, we needed another full sized mattress. I figured it would” />

src=’https://i.chzbgr.com/full/10664445952/hA1209E3A/about-but-she-always-says-she-isnt-able-and-always-has-something-else-more-pressing-pay-off-so’ width=”800″ height=”620″ alt=”sized mattress. I figured it would be the perfect time to ask Buttercup about paying me back for the mattress. In the past, I’ve asked about it but she always says that she "Isn’t able to" and always has something else more pressing to pay off. So” />

src=’https://i.chzbgr.com/full/10664446720/hDE2DC83B/with-my-gf-but-buttercup-responded-she-just-bought-car-and-she-really-needs-use-money-and-she-sorry’ width=”800″ height=”638″ alt=”else more pressing to pay off. So the last time I asked her I really stressed how much this means to me that I can move in with my gf but Buttercup responded that she just bought a car and she really needs to use the money for that and that she was sorry.” />

Так, ви вгадали. Терпіння другої сусідки нарешті вичерпалося, і матрац був забраний. Вона повідомила про це першій сусідці, але, можливо, її веселий характер змусив це виглядати як великий жарт (в очах першої сусідки, і нікого іншого). Сюжет стає цікавішим: хлопець першої сусідки розійшовся з нею, і тепер боржниця залишилася без місця для сну. На цьому етапі три сусідки посварилися, і гнів йшов з обох сторін. А як же третя сусідка, запитаєте ви? Як це часто буває в таких випадках, вона опинилася посередині.

src=’https://i.chzbgr.com/full/10664447744/h4AC4A8B6/bfs-house-so-figured-if-just-took-mattress-wouldnt-be-end-world-since-she-had-another-place-crash’ width=”800″ height=”737″ alt=”This is the point where I feel like I kinda turned into the ah le in this situation. I knew that Buttercup would spend weeks at her bfs house so I figured that if I just took the mattress, it wouldn’t be the end of the world since she had another place to crash.” />

src=’https://i.chzbgr.com/full/10664447232/h828115FE/at-turns-out-her-boyfriend-had-dumped-her-and-she-came-home-she-realized-her-mattress-missing’ width=”800″ height=”478″ alt=”Last week I got a call from Buttercup who was screaming at me. Turns out her boyfriend had dumped her and when she came home she realized her mattress was missing.” />

src=’https://i.chzbgr.com/full/10664448000/h3E20B948/profusely-but-at-one-point-just-felt-like-she-guilt-tripping-and-got-angry-told-her-this-whole’ width=”800″ height=”539″ alt=”Apparently, when I told her that I was taking her mattress she thought I was joking. I apologized profusely, but at one point it just felt like she was guilt-tripping me and I got angry. I told her that this whole” />

src=’https://i.chzbgr.com/full/10664459520/h198F2852/woman-sleeping-on-a-couch’ width=”800″ height=”450″ alt=”Woman sleeping on a couch.” />

src=’https://i.chzbgr.com/full/10664447488/h7D328BA5/have-happened-if-she-had-made-any-effort-pay-back-at-all-but-she-still-refuses-admit-any-wrongdoing’ width=”800″ height=”500″ alt=”angry. I told her that this whole thing wouldn’t have happened if she had made any effort to pay me back at all but she still refuses to admit to any wrongdoing.” />

src=’https://i.chzbgr.com/full/10664448256/h03A37942/supported-her-and-little-thought-she-gives-and-my-needs-but-know-s-still-incredibly-petty-idk-aita’ width=”800″ height=”826″ alt=”Bubbles texted me and let me know Buttercup’s been sleeping on the couch for the last two days. I’ve thought about giving the mattress back but I’m genuinely hurt by how much I’ve supported her and how little thought she gives to me and my needs. But I know it’s still incredibly petty, idk AITA?” />

Суперечки розгорілися з деякими коментарями, опублікованими в Інтернеті. Дехто щиро переймався загальною вартістю самого матраца, і ми не можемо їх звинуватити. Інших просто захопили культові псевдоніми, як і нас. Але загалом, усі погодилися, що в певний момент важливо визнавати свої борги. Особливо, коли йдеться про борги, пов’язані з матрацами, або ви можете опинитися в ситуації, коли доведеться спати на дивані.

Зрештою, автор цієї історії був визнаний невинним у конфлікті, а перша сусідка мусила нести наслідки своїх дій, втративши свій дорогий матрац, доки не поверне гроші другій сусідці.

src=’https://i.chzbgr.com/full/10664449792/hB0C96656/nta-didnt-steal-mattress-reposed-since-she-didnt-pay-any-furniture-store-would-have-done-shes-mooch’ width=”800″ height=”754″ alt=”Kitchen-Witch-1987 NTA You didn’t steal the mattress you reposed it since she didn’t pay you for it. Any furniture store would have done it. She’s a mooch.” />

src=’https://i.chzbgr.com/full/10664450048/h154A820E/few-so-good-gesture-bound-become-point-contention-and-inability-foresee-contributed-this-situation’ width=”800″ height=”411″ alt=”UnabashedHonesty You not an AH, but you were utterly naive to spend that much money on a mattress your friend was NEVER going to pay you back for. What college student has a spare $1,000 floating around? Very few. So your good gesture was bound to become a point of contention, and your inability to foresee that contributed to this situation.” />

src=’https://i.chzbgr.com/full/10664449024/h34B6853B/likely-upset-losing-her-boyfriend-thus-her-ranting-on-give-her-time-keep-mattress-shell-figure-out’ width=”800″ height=”426″ alt=”Historical_Lock_2042 NTA…she’s likely upset from losing her boyfriend thus her ranting on you. Give her time, keep your mattress, she’ll figure it out.” />

src=’https://i.chzbgr.com/full/10664449536/h5475E4C8/car-but-couldnt-pay-back-yeah-no-s-not-ok-mattress-is-yours-suggest-an-air-matress-put-her-room’ width=”800″ height=”483″ alt=”Lunar-Eclipse0204 NTA- Buttercup bought a car but couldn’t pay you back??? yeah no that’s not ok, mattress is yours – suggest an air matress to put in her room” />

src=’https://i.chzbgr.com/full/10664457984/h54BD8AE4/woman-testing-a-mattress-at-a-store’ width=”800″ height=”450″ alt=”Woman testing a mattress at a store.” />

src=’https://i.chzbgr.com/full/10664448768/hAC45227F/traditional_fan_2655-life-has-consequences-nta’ width=”800″ height=”266″ alt=”Traditional_Fan_2655 Life has consequences. NTA” />

src=’https://i.chzbgr.com/full/10664449280/h73901FC8/loisgrand6-no-advice-but-love-aliases’ width=”800″ height=”254″ alt=”Loisgrand6 No advice but I love the aliases” />

src=’https://i.chzbgr.com/full/10664448512/h1F81D96B/spiritedlettuce6900-nta-she-can-sleep-her-car’ width=”800″ height=”249″ alt=”SpiritedLettuce6900 NTA. She can sleep in her car.” />

src=’https://i.chzbgr.com/full/10664450304/hC89A9377/stiff-but-do-expect-somebody-created-lab-unstable-chemicals-on-other-hand-who-wants-used-mattress’ width=”800″ height=”703″ alt=”Dorzack ESH – was the mattress officially collateral for the loan? Verbally maybe. Buttercup was always going to stiff you, but what do you expect from somebody created in a lab from unstable chemicals. On the other hand, who wants a used mattress?” />

src=’https://i.chzbgr.com/full/10664450816/hBD66F505/heavy-macaron2004-nta-jfc-she-never-going-pay-back-also-kind-mattress-costs-1k-mine-under-100′ width=”800″ height=”302″ alt=”Heavy-Macaron2004 Nta, jfc. She was never going to pay you back. Also what kind of mattress costs $1k?? Mine was under $100…” />

src=’https://i.chzbgr.com/full/10664450560/h83EC964B/more-mattresses-are-closer-1k-than-100-unless-talking-about-things-are-barely-better-than-yoga-mats’ width=”800″ height=”284″ alt=”KetoLurkerHereAgain Nah, that part is legit. Way more mattresses are closer to 1K than $100, unless you’re talking about the things that are barely better than yoga mats.” />

src=’https://i.chzbgr.com/full/10664451072/h807F341F/s-reasonable-price-after-all-models-below-1000-at-all-five-companies-are-clearly-inferior-junk’ width=”800″ height=”435″ alt=”TinyNiceWolf The mattress industry convinces people that a good mattress has to cost a lot, because there are far fewer manufacturers than brand names. People see five different "companies" saying their decent mattresses start at $1000, and conclude that’s a reasonable price. After all, the models below $1000 at all five companies are clearly inferior junk.” />

Якби нам довелося висловити свою думку (що, звичайно, ми повинні зробити, бо ми любимо тут драму), то немає нічого, чого б не вирішило належне спілкування. Також, письмові угоди не завадять, і так, повернення грошей було цілком доречним.